I'm typing out part of this article verbatim, because I can't think how to paraphrase it and not utilize just as many words in an effort to accomplish what will no doubt be an inferior product. I'm curious about opinions, though. Please leave them as blog post comments and not on my facebook wall, so that all can see.
"First, let's tackle the allocation of chores on a day-to-day basis...Very simply, each spouse must contribute the same number of hours each day to productive activities that directly contribute to the well-being of the household. How you do this depends on the wage-earner structure of your family.
If your family has two full-time wage earners, and you work the same hours, each spouse must share in the housework during evenings and weekends until it's completed. If one spouse works just part-time, he or she must take on additional housework equal to the hours of extra work put in by the full-time spouse. By working during the same hours, it's easy to see that the share of the work is equal. If a wage earner works a night shift, then instead of working during the same hours each day, the spouses must agree to put in the same number of productive hours every day.
If your family has one wage earner, the stay-at-home spouse should expect to work an equal amount of time at home, from the time the wage-earner leaves until he or she returns. Any remaining work, including giving kids baths and helping with homework, must be shared equally. During these nine or more hours , the stay-at-home spouse should be able to complete the basic housework and meal preparation, even with caring for young children...
If you are a stay-at-home spouse and your daily activities include chatting on the phone, reading romance novels, watching tv (without doing a productive activity simultaneously), etc., you shouldn't expect your spouse to share in the housework when he or she arrives home.
(Taken from The Complete Tightwad Gazette by Amy Dacyczyn)
Well, what do you think? I was curious about this, I have to admit. It has never occurred to me to 'go to work' when my husband went to work. David worked from 3-11pm tonight, an 8 hour shift with a 1/2 hour unpaid break, and so 7.5 hours of work was what I would have to expect of myself as well.
In the interests of 'science' I gave it a shot this evening. Actually timing myself revealed that I previously had
no sweet idea how much time I spent feeding, clothing, changing, cleaning and disciplining my children. In the first two hours or so of 'work time' I spent close to an hour on child-related tasks that couldn't be combined with another chore. Changing a diaper, moving a crawler away from the vacuum cord for the fifth time, looking at the 'Watch this mama! Mama, you watching?" when requested...it takes a lot of my time!
Even so, I assumed that seven and a half hours of work would produce a pretty fantastic result, and I was disappointed. After you factor in all the child related stuff, and the constant interruptions (another dirty diaper? Really? Are you doing this because mama is trying to fold shirts? Tell me the truth now...) I actually didn't accomplish any more than I would have on a normal day at home.
I vacuumed the stairs and hall and two of the three bedrooms.
I made up the guest bed with clean linens from our Christmas guests.
I tidied upstairs, which mostly consisted of removing the plethora of toys from our room.
I swept the floors. Twice.
I washed the dishes.
I 'rebooted' the laundry (take dry clothes off the line and put away, put wet clothes on the line, put another load in the washer).
I did a surface clean of the kitchen and dining room to remove the traces of two excited children playing with green playdough and eating blueberries for supper. Not simultaneously, thank the Lord.
I organized the garbage and recycling.
I corralled the toys in the livingroom.
At 8pm I stopped 'work' around the house because a neighbour had asked me to help her prepare some food for a funeral reception, and I spent an hour doing that. However, the author of the article did say that 'volunteer work' qualified as housework, so I guess this counts.
It was productive, but it wasn't, you know, holy-cow-this-is-an-amazing-day productive or anything. My house does not look like you could do surgery in the bathroom or film a cooking show in the kitchen. I wouldn't be cringing if unexpected company came over, but I wouldn't be inviting anyone, let's put it that way.
So I guess what I'm saying is that yes, you probably do need that much time every day to keep the house running. Anyway, I'd be curious to hear what other people think.